Very Personal

Because each of my interviews with future clients is essentially a teachable moment, keeping a diary allows my clients and others a unique perspective into the constantly evolving world of dating and relationships. By reading about what others set as their expectations and desires for their future relationships each of us is afforded the opportunity to personally reflect on what it is we want for ourselves. Enjoy!

February 29, 2012

My first appointment today is a “be back”, a man I interviewed a year ago. He is mid 30’s, ABS, highly educated, a retired military officer, financially secure, his long term goal is marriage and children. When I met with him a year ago he was in between contracts and unsure of whether or not he was going to stay in Colorado Springs. Now he has bought a home, has a job he enjoys, and plans to stay here. He would love to raise his children here.
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February 21-25, 2012

In the two and a half years I have done Donna’s Daily Dairy this is the first time I have ever done a week of Donna’s Daily Diaries in one entry, but it is the only way to get it up to date and get a fresh start with this week. Holy cow, last week was one of those weeks where even super multi tasking did not give me enough time to get everything done.
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February 16, 2012

My first appointment is a “be back”, a man I interviewed three months ago, early 50’s, educated, divorced, one grown child, his long term goal is a serious relationship and he would consider marriage.
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February 14, 2012

My first appointment is a lady, late 40’s, highly educated, divorced, grown children and one at home, self employed, very successful, and her long term goal is marriage. She is tall, fit, trim, beautiful and has met over two dozen men in the time she has been divorced. There has only been one man she was interested in and that has run its course. She said “I have had enough first-last dates.
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February 13, 2012

My first appointment to is a lady, late 40’s, divorced, educated, grown children, and her long term goal is definitely marriage. She is from the Midwest but she has lived in Colorado Springs for over a dozen years and she loves Colorado. Her scores tell me that she is somewhat easy going, shy, nonconforming, very affectionate, spiritual and very frugal.
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February 8, 2012

My first appointment to day is a man, early 70’s, separated, grown children and grandchildren, his long term goal is a serious relationship, and possibly marriage. I do not usually offer membership to someone who is not yet divorced, but he is a former client and it is a little hard to tell someone in their 70’s that they need to wait. Is he emotionally available?
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February 4, 2012

My first appointment today is a man, mid 50’s divorced, self employed, grown children, and his long term goal is a serious relationship, possibly marriage. He said “I am in a really comfortable place in life, my kids are through college, my home is paid for, my health is great, I am very financially secure and cutting back the hours that I spend working. I want to travel and I am looking for a lady who also wants to travel, and has the flexibility to travel.”
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February 2, 2012

My first appointment today is a lady, mid 30’s, ABS, educated, her long term goal is marriage and she is open to having children. She said “A couple of years ago I decided not to exclude the possibility of meeting a man who already has children and may not want more children. I always thought I would be a mom but being a stepmom, or meeting a man who does not have children or want children, could be what is in the stars for me. What matters most is meeting the right man.”
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