Very Personal

Because each of my interviews with future clients is essentially a teachable moment, keeping a diary allows my clients and others a unique perspective into the constantly evolving world of dating and relationships. By reading about what others set as their expectations and desires for their future relationships each of us is afforded the opportunity to personally reflect on what it is we want for ourselves. Enjoy!

October 31, 2012

A new client was discouraged because he was interested in a second meeting with the first two ladies I matched him with, but they were not interested. One of them was concerned because he mentioned he smoked marijuana in the 70’s.
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October 23, 2012

Matchmaking is a very interesting business. Since 1987 it has been my career, and I began Perfectly Matched in 1991. By the mid 90’s the online dating services became an acceptable thing to do for people who had been reluctant just a year or two before. It has forever changed the way people meet, date, and get to know one another.
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October 13, 2012

My first appointment today is a man, late 40’s, educated, ABS (always been single), his long term goal is marriage and children. He said “In the last few years I decided I really would like to have a child. Previously I was open to the idea, but never met the right woman.”
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October 8, 2012

My first appointment is a man, late 50’s, divorced, educated, semi-retired, and his lone term goal is marriage. He is a “be back”, I interviewed him a year ago, but at that time he was not emotionally available.
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October 4, 2012

My first appointment today is a man, early 30’s, divorced, educated, financially secure, and his long term goal is marriage. He has no children, and he can go either way as far as having children.
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October 2, 2012

My first appointment today is a man, late 20’s, ABS (always been single), educated, his long term goal is marriage and children. He is very articulate and wise beyond his years. According to his “scores” he is somewhat easy going, but not a wimp, outgoing, nonconforming, affectionate, but not smothering, an atheist, and financially responsible.
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