Donna's Daily Diary - February 3, 2010

My first appointment today is a man, late 50’s, divorced, grown children, not so tall, and his long term goal is whatever the universe decides. The “not so tall” became kind of a joke during the interview because when I book an appointment I always ask their height. He said “Not so tall but, I make up for it in other ways.” So course the question begs to be answered “What other ways?” This man was so funny on the phone I was really looking forward to the interview. He has really fun scores. His temperament score is “6.5”, he’s easy going but not a wimp. Sociability score is “8”, very outgoing. Conformity score is “2”, a nonconformist. Affection score is “8”, very affectionate and physical in a relationship. His religion score is “2”, religion and conformity usually go hand in hand. His finance score is “8”, he likes to spend money, especially on a lady. He said “Just tell these ladies he’s not so tall but he’s good looking, funny, likes to have fun, has a lot of money and wants to spend it on them.” He is really quite handsome and wealthy. He told me to say it. When I asked him his height he said “5’7, the same as Tom Cruise.” He is comfortable with any height and actually likes tall ladies. He said “I don’t really care about her height if she is ‘the one’.” On a serious note, he talked about a lady who was the love of his life and what that felt like and how he wants to feel it again. He said “I want to be like Frank Sinatra and end up with the best woman last.” He is also very open on his age preference and everything else… a true nonconformist.

My second appointment is a lady in her mid 40’s, 6’ tall, divorced, educated and her long term goal is probably marriage. Of course her height is something we have to pay attention to but, like most tall ladies, she is comfortable with a man her height or even an inch shorter. I almost NEVER hear that from a short lady. She is very fit and athletic and appreciates a man who is also fit and athletic. She said “I don’t want a man who wants to try to compete with me to see if he can beat me.” At this point she wants to have more fun and enjoy the experience rather than compete. Besides, she could beat most of them if she tried. She looks much younger than her age because she has been an athlete all her life. She is the picture of good health. She was “information gathering” on her visit today and is going to “think about it” and get back to me in a couple of days. I hope she becomes a client and I match her with a man she can wear three inch heels with and he would still be taller than her.

My third appointment is a man in his mid 50’s, divorced, grown kids he is very close to and his long term goal is a serious, long term relationship and possibly marriage. This man is also a nonconformist and “2” in religion and he was married to a lady is a strong Mormon for 20 years. He knew the marriage wasn’t right but he stayed in it for the kids. When we talked about his scores tonight it was like a light bulb went off for him. He cried. His ex wife is very religious. He read and studied and tried to learn all he could about the Mormon religion but he could never embrace it. He always felt guilty about it. When the kids were grown she ended the marriage because she also knew it wasn’t working. After his divorce he met a lady he really cared for but she was also very religious and he tried again to go to church and participate. It just did not feel right to him. When he saw his religion score on the test it suddenly all made sense to him. I said “You can try with all your heart and for all the right reasons to make a relationship work but if you are incompatible in too many areas you are beating your head against a brick wall.” He is very excited to meet compatible ladies and see what that feels like. I am excited that I get to help him.

To be continued tomorrow……………