Donna's Daily Diary - October 30, 2009

The new Available Singles have now been added to the current list of Available Singles on my website. There are now 35 men and 35 women for you to explore and I will be adding new Available Singles regularly, so please check back.

My first appointment today is one of those rare species, a 58 year young man who will date not only up to his own age but even a few years older. I give older men a hard time about wanting to date too much younger than themselves but older ladies are starting to do the same thing. His last relationship lasted five years and she is 61.
This is another opportunity to mention that age is the least important thing if everything else is compatible and you are attracted to each other. He is also tall, good looking and very, very, funny. A sense of humor, or even just smiling, can make a person immediately more physically attractive. He is very connected to his family; kids, grandkids, siblings and he has many friends. He is very social and enjoys theater, concerts, plays and traveling. He said “The only thing missing in my life is someone special to share it and I am tired of just waiting for it to happen.” I have some great matches for him.

My second appointment is a lady, 50, two grown children and, she has been out of her marriage for a couple of years. She is empty nesting and feeling like it’s “her turn” to make herself a priority. She is nervous but excited about dating again. She has an inspiring life story and part of what she does is motivational speaking. She had read almost everything on my website and knew a great deal about me and my service. This lady has her life in order and her focus now is to date, have fun and, enjoy the company and companionship of a charming man. She so deserves to have a nice man in her life and I look forward to helping her find him.

A lady called with her feedback on her first meeting. She knew he wasn’t interested because he talked about other women. He was not interested but he was surprised that she concluded that he was not interested because he talked about other women. He is recently divorced and has not done much dating. I said, “Dating 101: Do NOT talk about other women when you are meeting a new woman for the first time.” He said “I probably would not have done that if I had been interested in her.” I said “That is exactly why she knew you weren’t interested.” This man is very much a gentleman and he said “I certainly did not mean to be disrespectful and from now on when I meet these ladies I am going to treat them as I would want to be treated. I said “That would be called the Golden Rule, what a great way to approach dating.”

To be continued tomorrow…………………..