Donna's Daily Diary - December 16, 2009

First of all, the two clients I would like to feature from yesterday:

This young lady is early 30’s, ABS (always been single), she is a teacher with a Master’s degree and her long term goal is marriage and children. Her interests include; hiking, boating, anything on the water, she loves to read, likes to travel, open to theater, concerts and she loves baseball and going to the games.

This is her ideal relationship:

“My ideal relationship would be with someone who is my best friend and wants to build a home and a life together. He would be someone who is out going and spontaneous, and can make me laugh and can laugh with me. He would be honest with me even when it hurts. He would be ambitious, supportive, and someone I could talk to about anything. He would like to travel and want to build a relationship together without losing sight of ourselves as individuals. He would want to have children and raise our family together as partners. My ideal relationship would be with someone who makes my life better just my being in it.”

This man is mid 40’s, divorced, two children, has a PHD and, his long term goal is a serious long term relationship and possibly marriage. His interests include; volleyball, hiking, skiing, scuba diving, dancing, dining out, jogging, biking, movies, music, concerts, painting, reading and writing.

This is a portion of his ideal relationship:

“I am an active person (hiking, skiing, biking, scuba, etc.), but I don’t want to spend every waking moment running up Pikes Peak or monitoring my caloric intake. I enjoy sipping Merlot under the stars on my deck, preparing a nice meal and snuggling together on the sofa while watching a movie, or sometimes just holding each other and doing nothing but being together. I know this sounds like something out of a movie, but one of my unfulfilled fantasies is to wash her (my soul mate’s} hair in a mountain stream and brush it dry in the sunlight.

I talked with the man who met the lady who complained that he “looked at every woman in the place.” He laughed when I told him she said that. He said it was an odd meeting for him because he was attracted to her but he did not think they clicked at all. He admitted that he looked around a little more than he should have but claims he couldn’t help himself. First of all, he wasn’t interested in her and secondly, he couldn’t help himself. I said “If you found her attractive why didn’t it click?” He thought she was too direct. He prefers a more easy going temperament. He said “Within ten minutes I felt like I was rolled over, chewed up and spit out.” This man is a “7” in temperament and this lady is a “4”, probably too much of a stretch. She doesn’t have the patience for him and he thinks she is TOO direct and straight forward. NEXT!!!

Featured clients for today:

This young lady is in her mid 40’s (looks much younger), divorced, grown children and her long term goal is marriage. Her interests include; skiing, theater, book clubs, dining out, travel (she has been to England, Scotland, Amsterdam, Hawaii, Canada), golf, boating, jazz and football.

This is her ideal relationship:

“The ideal relationship to me is a connection on an emotional, physical and intellectual level. I am looking for a man, who can laugh about things and sees the glass as half full. Someone who smiles easily, has a twinkle in his eye, and understands the small romantic gestures. We would enjoy good conversations with much laughter and good humor. At the same time he would know when to be serious and use his good judgment when it came to finances and career decisions involving our relationship.”


This man is in his early 60’s, divorced, grown children, two Master’s degrees and his long term goal is marriage. His interests are; hiking, football, travel, dining out, jogging, biking, walking, entertaining, movies, plays, music, concerts, symphony, sketching, reading, debating and politics.

This is his ideal relationship:

“My “Ideal Relationship” is comprised of mutual respect and kindness…a relationship built on trust, acceptance, communication, a genuine liking for the other person, and a willingness to compromise at times. A recognition of the other as a separate person from me, with her own needs, values and choices. A healthy relationship provides a safe, secure, encouraging place…a place where we are allowed to express opinions, feelings, make mistakes, experiment, take risks..My ideal relationship is about balance and growth…it’s about letting your partner be herself… It’s about loving my partner “unconditionally.”

Why are these people still available? Maybe because you haven’t called for your no obligation interview….260-1000.

To be continued tomorrow………………………………..