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Because each of my interviews with future clients is essentially a teachable moment, keeping a diary allows my clients and others a unique perspective into the constantly evolving world of dating and relationships. By reading about what others set as their expectations and desires for their future relationships each of us is afforded the opportunity to personally reflect on what it is we want for ourselves. Enjoy!

Dear Donna March 21st, 2018 – Part II

Dear Donna,

I am dating a man I find very attractive except for his teeth. Everything about him is immaculate, except for his teeth. They are discolored and he could benefit from a couple of veneers or caps on his front two teeth. Is there a nice way to tell him he needs to do something about his teeth? Laura

Dear Laura,

I don’t have to give the “teeth talk” as often as I did years ago because most people are aware that nice teeth are a huge plus when it comes to appearance. Both men and women notice teeth more than almost any other physical feature.
Tell him you find him attractive and you think his smile would be so much brighter if he whitened his teeth.
Many people see a difference with the strips you can buy in the grocery store but if it takes a trip to the dentist to get the desired results, it could be one of the best investments he will ever make. And I bet he will love it!

Dear Donna March 21st, 2018

Dear Donna,

My girlfriend cheated on me and now she wants me back. We were together for four years and I was devastated when she told me she was in love with a coworker. I have spent the last few months trying to get over this and was just starting to feel better. She told me she never stopped loving me and the other guy turned out to be a jerk. A month ago I would have taken her back in a heartbeat but I recently met someone I really enjoy and was looking forward to getting to know her better.
I am torn because I would love to believe I could have what I used to have with my ex-girlfriend but I don’t know if I can trust her again. We lived together and she wants to move back in so I have to decide quickly. Randy

Dear Randy,

No, you don’t have to decide quickly, and you shouldn’t. At the very least you should not agree to letting her move in right away. You should tell your ex-girlfriend that you have met someone you are interested in getting to know better and keep going in the direction you were already going. If she is sincere about wanting you back in her life she will respect your decision and give you the time you need. The ball is in your court and it is not your responsibility to provide her with a place to live.
Everyone comes into your life for a reason and the lady you recently met could be there to help you move on.
I think you will find it easier to get over your ex-girlfriend than it will be to trust her again.

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January 14, 2015

January always starts off as a whirlwind and that has certainly been the case this year. When people make New Year’s resolutions getting fit and finding someone special are usually on the top of the list which makes January my busiest month in business for the 25th year in a roll.

I want to point out that Perfectly Matched is not about just finding a date. It is about finding a mate. By the time people come to me they are serious about finding someone special. Many of them have already tried the internet and many of them would never try the internet. The internet has become so polluted with scammers, liars and sleazy people that most people get discouraged pretty quickly. More importantly, the relationships and marriages made at Perfectly Matched have stood the test of time.

Over the holidays there were at least a dozen couples on Facebook with pictures and comments about how happy they are and how much they love their partner. I decided to go through my client base and take a look at how long some of them have been together and it was a great reminder to me of how the clients who meet through Perfectly Matched stay together in successful relationships and marriages.
One couple has been together since 1992 and in her comments she wrote “Happy birthday to my wonderful husband, lifelong soul mate and best friend. I love you honey!”
Another couple has been together since 1996. They were both in their late 30’s and wanted kids. They had a child in 1997 and 1998.
Another couple has been together since 1999. They married and blended their families, they each have two kids, and now their kids are grown and doing great.
Another couple has been together since 2000. I went to their wedding in 2001 and in the interview she said she wanted lots and lots of babies. Today they have four children.
Another couple has been together since 2001. She was a referral from the lady who met her husband in 1992. She married the man I introduced her to in 2003.
Another couple has been together since 2002 and she wrote “I am so blessed to have this wonderful man in my life and I am proud to be his wife.”
Another couple has been together since 2010 and she wrote “Merry Christmas to the love of my life.”
Another couple has been together since 2010. She became a client in 2007 and he walked through my door in 2010. She was his first and only match and they are married.
Another couple has been together since 2011 and they are married and have this precious little baby. Their pictures and comments on Facebook are so endearing.
Then there was the young couple I ran into on New Year’s Eve and they married in October. She had been a client since 2009 and he walked through my door in May of 2014. The fact that there is no time frame on my service has definitely worked to my client’s advantage now that I am in my 25th year of business. No one expects to work with me for years and most people find someone within a year but however long it takes, I don’t give up…as long as they don’t give up.

At Perfectly Matched I work one on one with all my clients. I don’t have anyone who works with me or for me and I don’t put any client information on a computer. In every interview I verify a valid driver’s license and my contract states if you have given me any false information I can cancel the membership and keep your money. So people don’t tell me they are divorced if they are not divorced. My contract also gives me permission to do a background check. I feel my talents as a Matchmaker are a big part of what makes my service more effective and keeps me in business. I do more coaching and counseling than I do matchmaking.

If you are serious about finding someone special why not start at a place where you meet serious minded people and work with a professional Matchmaker?
You can start by taking the Profile test on my website at or call me at 719-260-1000.
Once I meet with you I will know how many matches I have for you.

Happy New Year!


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